Touch Rugby Gals ROX Forever!!!

Dear Diary,

Somehow... old memories of the rugby gals just creaped in without my awareness...
Suddenly I missed them badly...

Miss the times I ignored my classmates but meet the rugby gang every break time; I avoid sitting with my class and sneak over to sit with the rugby gals during lectures...

We share almost every time break we have together other than tutorial lessons (Since some of us are in different class).. Other than that, we study together, play, cry, worked out... we pratically do everything together... that's how bonded the rugby gangs where.. it's applies to the rugby guys too... I miss the boys too.. though once in a blue moon I would see them on street..
So I just have this gush in me.. and went to dig out some old photos.. as usual I am the photographer as such there would be more of their photo than mine.. Regret not taking more photos with them...but then again I look horrible then.. haha..

NVM... I manage to find a few photos.. so here goes... PLs dun puke seeing the drastic different in me k... =p

This is me and Yan yan.. waiting for JJC team to be called to play.. in the back ground you can also see Khem leng, xial wei with her hand blocking her face...etc...

Me and Zinc, that's her nick in the gang.. we have shi tian who's called Copper... Cool nick we have in the gang eh..

This is Binky and me...Look at the bright and warm sun.. I miss the kinda warm and tan I can get under the sun.. I hardly work my lims out now a days... sob...


The Gals... There were the ones in the game for one of the competition... There's a reason why I am showing this pic...Saw the cool gal holding the rugby ball.. she's the captain then.. She's ehem... call Shirlyn... I kinda had a crushed on her then.. She's So cool.. everything about her is like OMG.. perfect.. her long legs.. darn.. her smile.. she just has this X-Factor.. She those that I hardly dare to look at in the eye when she talks to me... I wld merely look at her from far expecially during training.. she's simply my IDOL!!!!!Yeah man, she rides a bike and is just so SEI lo... Goodness...

honestly, till today I still can't get her out of my mind.. hahah.. I still keep in touch with her.. and I am so glad she stll remembers me...

I recall how I first try to get her number like those perverts, how I do things in silent for her.. the first bdae present I gave her.. it took me almost a month to complte lo.. and I spend all my savings on it... hahah.. madness hor...

Enough about her.. lets go to the next photo...

Me and Khem Leng.. On the last day when she's leaving for Canada.. I was so sad then.. I remember we went to buy the same converse shoe together.... hehe... miss those kind of fun...


Me and Khem Leng again.. My ankle was injured then....while they were in the SPH game...


Binky, Yan yan and myself... haha.. I look like some Silly lady.. haha...


My best rugby gals team....The only reason I love JJC is the Rugby team...


Me and Xiao Wei...

FInally ... us again.. I love this photo.. this is the sort of photos most of friends wont take with you... not to mention your collegues now... no one would spontaneously lie on the grass like us and take photo.. and actually there's a second shot to this with more people jumping on to us on the back.. haha...those were the kind of funs not many experience...

TOuch Rugby Gals, you gals rox... we must catch up eh... love ya!!!

Is there FOREVER LOVE?

Dear Diary,

Looking at all these lovey dovey stuff, it makes one feels nothing other than sweet, touched to the heart...

Yes at this past week, I start to wonder the true meaning about love... I have friends that are getting married soon.. and I am really so happy for them.. yet at the same time, I heard of few friends breaking up.. and the worst one got to be my buddy's case.

It greatly affected me I must say...

He's going to divorce his wife... or rather it's the other way round, the wife ask for the divorce...
At this very point, it would comes to everyone's mind that my buddy must be some jerk, having some extra marital affair outside... but WRONG!

It's just the other way wrong.. he's those Mr NICE guy.. SOoo nice in fact... that everyone would want to be his best friend sort... However because of his nice nature, he's nothing sort of the romantic guy... Or shld I say he's the Boring kind. He does nothing more than going home after work, staring at the TV or his computer or play his PS...He doesn't gives his wife flowers or stuff even on birthdays but just treats out for dinners. He's the sort of family guy that finds romantic things impractical. (My bro says IT guys are like this... especially the hardware sort.. Maybe it's true)...the wife on the contradicting is those out to party sort...

So now you can imagine wat happen... the wife found someone and is asking a divorce from the 2 yrs old (going 3 years actually) marriage. How sad! They knew each other and dated for at least 6yrs... My buddy changed for her... compromise to her even to the living and eating lifestyle even when it's so different from his own family. He loved her dearly... everything he does in mind only for her.. he saved on himself just to allow her to splurge.. he does the housework, help with the cooking.. yet this is what he gets..

He DIDN'T change, NEVER! But the wife did... She knews he's like this in that past, if she can't tolerate and compromise to that, then why get married? Why disrupt his life? He's such a poor thing... Now he washes his face with tears daily... I wish I could do something for him, yet I can only stare at him in this situation helplessly...

He tried everything to salvage, but my brother is right, when a woman changes her heart, you can't get her back. Guess I can only ask my buddy to give her up, divorce her and moved on with life.

Haiz.. so sad isn't?

Why can't people think carefully before they get married? Can't they be more responsible? I began to wonder if there's forever love? Is it so hard to compromise each other when you love him/her? Love maybe be sweet when you are in love, it may be easy to compromise when you are merely dating, but when it comes to marriage, lots of things have to be considered. Love is not one person giving in and the other being pleased. I didn't want to discourage people to get married, not everyone wld have such problems, but pls don't get married if you are not ready to Commit! You are not bring hurt to urself, but to the other party and the both families... PLs be considerate...

Would pray hard for all those in their marriage with many blessings....

I have seen so much divorce cases ard me that I am starting to freak of marriage... maybe there's no happy ending, no living happily ever after like the fairy tales... I used to think true love never ends.. but now I am doubting, the world is too tempting for people not to change....What shallow world...

Touch Rugby

Dear Diary,

Looking at this photo reminds me of the gals... Touch Rugby gals Rocks... I was so boyish then.. heehee... I still recall when the gals was having this particular competition, I couldn't even have a round to play with even when they are short of players...cuz my ankle was injured.. so sad... i wish i could have played... I went with Min the great and Binky. Think Min went down to play eventually though we soely came to support the team.. those were the days.... 

My worst encounter in my 24 years

Dear Diary,

Today is another work day for me in island. The day was all fine, w/o T*** ard I have no fear that my $$ would short. Hence I was kinda in spirit to get things done. I know it's kinda bad to use "tinted views" to see her, but she betrayed my trust, I didn't judged her based on other's perspective. If you want others to trust you, you would first got to prove that you can be trusted, you ought to work for it yourself.

Nvm, she's out of the picture anyhow.

So the day goes on till I was about to KO (Knock off). This American man came over with his family to buy cable car ticket. 2 adults and 3 kids, 1-way and it cost$33.30. He paid and gesture his daughter away in a rude manner.

I was kinda astonished but still smile and return his change and gave his set of tickets and like I always do to the rest, I would say "Your Ticket Sir/Madam. Thank you. Enjoy your ride".

As he was in a lousy mood having difficulty getting his change into his wallet with the many things he's carrying, I held on to the ticket and waited patiently to hand him the ticket, yet he pulled the ticket out in a rude manner and left it on the table. Upon his keeping of change he left taking his ticket with him, As such I moved on to served the next customer on the Q.

Just as I was in the mids of explaining to the customer, the cable car attendant shouted over and say the man doesn't have a ticket. I was like"Huh?". Then before I could get control of the stuation, this ANGRY American man came shouting over like a barbarian claiming that I didn't give him the tickets.

I was like "Hello!!!" ,yet I asked him politely to checked his bag, and at this point when the customer that was behind the American whom commented that he was ME giving the American the tickets, the American Seemed to have lost his senses. He gave that expression as if we were accusing him (For goodness sake, I am the one being accused, plus the other customer is your fellow country mate, not mine yet he's on my side), and opened his bag and Started throwing his empty bags, tissues, waste paper on my face and shouting vulgarities cursing and swearing at me.

Maggie (who witness 80% of the case since she got to receive pax) came over at this time trying to help but it was kind of out of control so I told Maggie it's ok and I printed another set of tickets to the Idiot AMERICAN man and get him to Shoo off.

The other old American gentleman who witness the entire scenario obviously felt sorry for me but had to put off a weak smile and shrugged his shoulder helplessly. He patted on my shoulder and said 'I understand'.

Tears was at the verged of sputtering out. I was merely controlling. I was angry yet felt injustice to be accused and wrong for something which I swear was not my fault. On top of that I got to pay the additional set of tickets. It's not the Money (my permanent job salary is like much more than this amount, I just felt that it's paid unwillingly.. you know) but rather the humiliation that I have to get through.

He made me feels that ALL Americans are just plain ARROGANT MCPs who thinks they are the best (ok maybe not all but at least 80% other than the old American gentlement who tried to hep).

HELLO!!! if you are reading this, I don't owe you a living, I have loved ones, you don't have the right to throw your temper at me much worst throw things on my face like I am some low class degraded alien. Not to say that I am not, even if I am a lowly paid insignificant you don't have any rights to do that to me. I am a human, I have the human rights, you ASSHOLE. Aren't you even taught of basic human rights.

Come on, you just disgraced your own country man people, an simply put off another foreign expert like myself to go to your country and much less even bother to talk to AMERICAN smug like YOU! If you have to know, you would get your retribution. Heavenly God would punish you for all that you have done to hurt another innocent soul, to crushed her pride. I didn't retaliate today because of my professionalism, it's my rule of Customer service. For you unreasonable asshole, you ought to thank god that I didn't made you wait and get security to view the camera to embarrassed you.

*Phew* Finally, I let out all that gushed of anger and injustice. Though it was a terrible experienced, I found true friendship. Guess what, Maggie, thought I wasn't that close to her, she tried so hard to help me. Even tried to get the attendant to help me get back the money in various ways though invalid. I am kind of surprise by her actions yet I have to say I am deeply touched. Then Sister Adeline and Peishu used the extra fund that we accumulated to offset the amount I ford (of course thank goodness, cuz of my pretty good service I always have those little tips that I chipped into the extra fund). Sister Ade , Sister Clintonia and the rest even comfort me. They were all o sweet. All trusted me without any doubt. I was touched... too touched for words honestly.

Then again my conscious is clear, they can check the system, the camera, plus I have Maggie and the customer as witness lo. I didn't bother to explain to the rest, much less bring it up but I was really upset. I cried, not because of the money but the fact that I was accused of sth I have not done and mortified in such manner. Kinda spoil my perfect record in the company. Fortunately my usual good service and good conduct has earned me my colleagues and friends trust. That's the blessing in disguise I should say.

Guess I should rest early... put the bad things behind me... After all that crying I am tired.... Geting accuse is something I can never tolerate... Those 'wei qu'.. Haiz... tears just seems to roll without control like a spoilt tap... =(

Nov Babies Bdae celebration @ Sakura

Dear Diary,

Nov 16 was my er jie, Khain wee's bdae... guess she's enjoying her holidays in Hong Kong now. We as in me and Katty planned a simple celebration for er jie and the rest of the November babies... the cso click i mean...in advance... on the 2 November which happen to be my brother's bdae too.. ha.. but i spend it with the ladies.. what a lousy sister I am.. lol..

We went Sakura for dinner... Yum... I love buffet...in fact, it's like a monthly activity for me... cuz of my weak digestive system hence it's not advisible to eat too much.. but I usually pamper myself... hehe..

So cut that usual 'luo so' crap... guess photos speaks a thousand words...

My fav ... all raw.. bloody.. but I like.. =p

The dori fish.. looks good.. like those from some posh restaurnt...

Cooked food... I didn't take this.. some NO-NOs for me in the buffet.. hahaha..

Hmm...I didn't take these either.. but honestly the triangle curry puff sort is pretty nice...I like fried stuff..Soo sinful..

SOme laksa...Hmm... the gravy is ok.. but "Dou Pok" is certainely not my cup of tea.. I never enjoy that...

This is nice.. creamy mushroom soup.. Think Khian wee took this... she just have her braces tighten so she can't eat too much of the hard food.. plus the rest.. they all don't really like raw food like I do.. what a waste...

Saw the japanese steam egg.. yumm..

Yeah.. I like the seafood...

Haha.. I took this.. and I finish the entire plate.. ha.. the tempura is fabulous...

I ate this too... I love jap food..

Salmon.. my number one choice..

More of the Dori fish...

This is a die die must eat for me.. Oyster... U bet, I can have like at least 1 dozen of it...in fact I am the only one that ate so much oyster that night..

Look at how Lynn is concentrating on her food... she one of the few good eaters like myself...I have to say.. she really know how to enjoy food.. I really enjoy having buffet with her...

Katty and all...

YY and her 2 boys.. both November babies..

They are pretty good eaters too...

Hehe.. a snap shot at Katty.. the babe.. she's not tt photogenic.. Maybe I shan't say she's a babe.. she' not Chio but she has got this X-Factor in her..a cool lady..

It's lynn on her next dish...

Er jie here.. she was trying to block my shot..

More people....

Er jie eating... I like this shot..

This is the 'cake' I prepared for her..it's those little pieces of cake at Sakura.. I brought my own Happy birthday sign and candle... hehe.. cool eh..

This is one of the best shot for the day...Er jie looks like a big kid.. hehe

Lynn, another bdae gal...

Joanne... the bossard belle... some says she looks like some hong kong actress...

The 3 november babies...

Opps.. not forgetting our 2 boy's bdae too...

There ought to be more photos... after the cake cutting KW open her bdae presents... we bought her a England jersey which Katty and myself spend quite a bit of effort searching especially Katty. We also got her a nike cap which KW wanted to buy while we were shopping but we stopped her...

I'll upload the photos on the presents when KW send me when she's back from HK that is... Too bad my camera fail me.. no battery.. that explains the blury photos.. haha... till i post again.. TC.. ciaos

Nice beach shots in sentosa

Dear Diary,

You guys know I work part time in Sentosa, yup so it had become a hobby of mine to go to the island to simply chill out, take nice shots... so here are some more on a nice weather....







Lastly... my fav shot.. unfortunately we have got a spoiler... darn..