Is there FOREVER LOVE?

Dear Diary,

Looking at all these lovey dovey stuff, it makes one feels nothing other than sweet, touched to the heart...

Yes at this past week, I start to wonder the true meaning about love... I have friends that are getting married soon.. and I am really so happy for them.. yet at the same time, I heard of few friends breaking up.. and the worst one got to be my buddy's case.

It greatly affected me I must say...

He's going to divorce his wife... or rather it's the other way round, the wife ask for the divorce...
At this very point, it would comes to everyone's mind that my buddy must be some jerk, having some extra marital affair outside... but WRONG!

It's just the other way wrong.. he's those Mr NICE guy.. SOoo nice in fact... that everyone would want to be his best friend sort... However because of his nice nature, he's nothing sort of the romantic guy... Or shld I say he's the Boring kind. He does nothing more than going home after work, staring at the TV or his computer or play his PS...He doesn't gives his wife flowers or stuff even on birthdays but just treats out for dinners. He's the sort of family guy that finds romantic things impractical. (My bro says IT guys are like this... especially the hardware sort.. Maybe it's true)...the wife on the contradicting is those out to party sort...

So now you can imagine wat happen... the wife found someone and is asking a divorce from the 2 yrs old (going 3 years actually) marriage. How sad! They knew each other and dated for at least 6yrs... My buddy changed for her... compromise to her even to the living and eating lifestyle even when it's so different from his own family. He loved her dearly... everything he does in mind only for her.. he saved on himself just to allow her to splurge.. he does the housework, help with the cooking.. yet this is what he gets..

He DIDN'T change, NEVER! But the wife did... She knews he's like this in that past, if she can't tolerate and compromise to that, then why get married? Why disrupt his life? He's such a poor thing... Now he washes his face with tears daily... I wish I could do something for him, yet I can only stare at him in this situation helplessly...

He tried everything to salvage, but my brother is right, when a woman changes her heart, you can't get her back. Guess I can only ask my buddy to give her up, divorce her and moved on with life.

Haiz.. so sad isn't?

Why can't people think carefully before they get married? Can't they be more responsible? I began to wonder if there's forever love? Is it so hard to compromise each other when you love him/her? Love maybe be sweet when you are in love, it may be easy to compromise when you are merely dating, but when it comes to marriage, lots of things have to be considered. Love is not one person giving in and the other being pleased. I didn't want to discourage people to get married, not everyone wld have such problems, but pls don't get married if you are not ready to Commit! You are not bring hurt to urself, but to the other party and the both families... PLs be considerate...

Would pray hard for all those in their marriage with many blessings....

I have seen so much divorce cases ard me that I am starting to freak of marriage... maybe there's no happy ending, no living happily ever after like the fairy tales... I used to think true love never ends.. but now I am doubting, the world is too tempting for people not to change....What shallow world...