Why Man Cheat

Dear Diary,

I was reading this article on why man Cheat... and in the survey they conducted:

The number ONE reason for straying is Emotional Dissatisfaction, which an astounding 48 percent of cheating men listed as the main trigger. Only 8 percent of men listed sexual dissatisfaction as the primary factor in their infidelity. In fact, just 12 percent of cheating husbands said their mistress was more physically attractive than their wife.

I belive this statistic is equally true for a woman...

I have to agree to some extend that like woman, Man needs to be love,needs to feel the love... I have seen many uncles whose wife are far more attractive than the mistress. It is not all amout the physical appearance anymore as you aged and mature...

It's easy for long-term couples to start taking each other for granted, and the things you loved about your partner when you first met may have faded over time. Everything seems to be a norm.. so it's important to keep expressing that feeling of admiration for each other, keep the sparks growing:

Thank him when he does something nice for you, and aim to give him at least one sincere compliment everyday -- be it a physical asset ("You look delicious in this shirt!") or a personality trait. ("Thank you for being so supportive."). Give him a well deserved big hug/kiss when he gets home after a bad day at work.. When you express appreciation for your partner, it reassures him your love and helps boosts his self-esteem.

Guess, quality time is equally important for a couple to make sure the marriage stays strong. How often it occurs to a couple, that they set aside too much time for their work and kids that they neglect their partner... so set aside at least ten minutes everyday just for each other. Just the 2 of you... Any activity that reconnects you and nurtures your bond counts as quality couple time -- whether it's a lazy weekend lounging around, cooking something together, Curdling together for a pillow talk before you go to sleep, a quiet evening of romantic candle light dinner at home alone without the kids, or even a mid-week lunch date. All these special moments together add up to reinforce your intimacy as a couple.

Believe me not, I may not be married but I have seen far more broken marriage than you would have imagine...

It takes 2 hands to clap. Start loving and appreciating your partner before you lost him/her..