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Tuesday, November 04, 2008

5 Guys You Should Never Date

Dear Diary,

I was reading this article about "5 Guys You Should Never Date" and I thought I should share it with my readers especially to my 2 friends J & M whose both healing from the broken hearts....

If you find yourself having a series of bad luck with men, don't blame your luck just yet – you've probably been getting into a relationship with the wrong guy

1. Married men
It’s obvious why dating married men is a bad idea.

Falling in love with a guy who already belongs to someone else entails countless painful sacrifices on your part: You cannot have him all for yourself, you have to keep your affair a secret, you can’t be seen together in public, and he can only call you when he can find the time away from his family and friends.

Not to mention all the potential stigmas that could plague you if your relationship is exposed.And you have to recognize the real possibility that after all that you've gone through for him, he’s not even contemplating on leaving his wife. "Although some people do find the love of their lives whilst they are still with someone else, a good rule of thumb is that if someone doesn’t leave their marriage within six months, they probably never will," says Helmanis.

The only married man worth considering? He’s the one who tells you to leave him alone and he’ll find you if/when he leaves his marriage, Helmanis adds.

2. Dominator
This guy takes an interest in everything you do, from the way you dress, who's in your phone list, the way you arrange your room to how your friends treat you.

At first it may feel wonderful to have this attentive man who genuinely cares about what's going on in your life, "but pretty soon he is telling you that you fold the laundry wrong (although he never does any) and that your best friend is boring (he doesn't like anyone else to have any influence)," warns Helmanis.

A control freak can be extremely charming in a new relationship, but once he feels secure he starts to become pushy and controlling. And unless he can control the other person, he fears he will lose her or that his own life will become chaotic.

His tyrannical behavior soon makes life miserable for his partner."Being a control freak is not about love, although he’ll tell you it is: It’s about power," says Helmanis, "Leave, before your confidence does."

3. Broken Heart
He's the guy who seems so sensitive and caring when you first met and tells you the heart-wrenching story of his past broken relationship. And soon you’ll find out that he's still nursing a broken heart from the relationship he had with someone ten years ago.

"Basically, you’re transitional woman in a nurse's uniform," says Helmanis.

Face it, if he lives in a haze of self-indulgent gloom and loves the drama of his own misery, you’ll never get through no matter how much time you spend trying to mend his broken heart. So give up and get going.

4. Smoothie
He's suave, sports designer suits, has a glitzy social life, owns an expensive apartment and zips around town in a flashy convertible.

He loves lavishing women with lots of attention, and has you feeling like a princess with his constant showers of gifts, flowers and exotic dinners.Problem is, you may not be the only chick in this Casanova's life.

Men like that are very likely to be a misogynist, warns Helmanis, "He can't see past the skirt to one special individual."

5. The Drain
You'll recognize a Drain because this guy constantly saps you – emotionally, financially and/or physically. He hates his life, can't stop complaining about his job, blames everyone else for his own laziness, and essentially relies on you to bolster his poor self-image.

"Other Drains include men who always seem to be borrowing money because they have maxed out their credit cards, who lose their temper over nothing and use you as an emotional punchbag," says Helmanis.

Guys like that are really nothing more than selfish, spoiled whiners who don’t understand the concept of responsibility or self-respect. Get them out of your life and lock the doors.

Damns..don't you feel that the author was very right about the 5 wrong guys that you should not go for??~!! Then again after eliminating all the 5 types I doubt the ladies out there has much better ones left....hahaha...well.. I guess it's better off staying single ...no wories, no heart breaks.. Cheers...

So J & M, cheer up. It's no big deal losing a guy..anyway, it's their lost.. get on with your life ya..
Take care...
 
 

++ The Author

Choo Kai Ling
Attitude Princess
DOB:6th Oct 82 (Libra)

cklbluelady@yahoo.com.sg

MSN cklbluelady@hotmail.com

You are reading the blog of a gal, with very much ATTITUDE.

A pampered spoiled little princess blessed with many knights and 'Royal' friends.
In general I am a very typical Librans with Confident, cheerful & positive is my Logo.  Basically, I'm sociable & plain active person.. One who holds great aspiration and dreams for the future. While career is my major priority, Friends & family holds a strong priority as well.

I love beautiful things and ones impression matters to me so I rate my frenz based on the 2 criteria. It sounds shallow but it's important my frenz know how to make themselves presentable cuz impression counts. I'm not pretty yet I feel it's important to leave a good impression with great attitude.

I chose my frenz. chose who i go out with and I'm particular. I guess I'm not lack of frenz but i draw clear line the "category" of fren they are in. Nonetheless, I'm lucky to have many truthful ones...


++Hobbies:
Shopping...Gals Talk, chilling out.. Anything that's fun..
Arts: designing & Doodling, Sports/Outdoor games: Swimming, Roller Blading
Ball games: Touch Rugby, net ball, volley ball etc etc


++Favorite Flower:
White Lily, Calla Lilly

 

++Favorite Books:
Love reading magazines..
Motivating books like:
Who moved my cheese,
Rich Dad poor dad,
I'm gifted so are you
My current Favorite goes to-
Da vinci's Code (GREAT BOOK)

++Favorite Shows:
I love Korean &Japanese Drama...
Cartoons counted?? I love Smurf -My all time favorite.. Haha. .
I Love Anime too like Naruto, GTO, Bleach etc etc..
 Smallville, Friends, Charmed, Alley Mcbeal, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and a whole lot more..

++Favorite Dog:
Golden Retriever



++Schools I Attended:
BHSP CTSS SAJC CJC JJC NTU
 
++Goal Station:
Pathfinder Prudential Marilyn Child care Sentosa (Faber Tours) NTUC Media
Singapore Science Centre
Bossard Citi
 

+ + My Favorite links
 

Facebook
Friendsville
Multiply
Hi 5
Yahoo Groups
Singet SMS
Starhub SMS
photobucket
Flickr
B3Tapix
Village Photos
Shopping Life style

++ My Wishlist



SLR
LV Wallet  
Addidas Sneakers      
Shades
Rolex Watch      
Issey Perfume
Burberry Polo T
Honda Civic


 

++ Blogs I Read

++Friends

Joel
Eileen Wong
Esjay
Baby Shuwen
Yiling (UOC)
Fanny (UOC)
Lemon T (UOC)
Brother CK
Jolynn
Giovanna
Kevan
Shirley
Vickey
Goh Chee Wee
Ricky
Kien Fee
Roger
Esther
Robin (DAC)
Daniel Ng (DAC)
Melissa
Chloe
Jun Xiong (AIA)
Adeline (SSC)
Zaki (SSC)
Janus (SSC)
Shane
Shumin (PL)
Sweet Jes
Sly Bear
Angeline
JR
Cassandra (The Bake House)

++Others

Babe
XiaXue
Poison Apple
S'pore Official Porn Site
Mr Brown
Sarng Party Girl
Kenny Sia
Big High Heels
Rockson Takumi Tan  

 

++ Friends

                  


Never Take Someone for Granted. Hold Every person close to your heart, because you might wake up one day and realize that you have lost a Diamond while you were too busy collecting stones.

Treasure Each and Every Friendship.

" Life Without Friendship is Like The Sky Without The Sun!"

++ Co-Workers

           


 

++ History

 

++ Tag


ii wish upon a s t a rr ;;
wanna be right where u are
you set my world on fire

babe i got a crush on you.
ii wish upon a s t a rr ;;
cant you see how right we are

we should be together
babe i got a crush on you.


i used to turn around and walk away
never stopped to plae
cause there was no attraction.


but in my heart you start tu grow on me
kind of suddenly
so now i’ve change direction


knowing it might seems strange
llurfe came over me
feeling that luck has changed
do you want me, like i want you?


in dis cold world, where dreams are few
baby, i want you ;
is it too much to ask for?


i’|l let you take me to places I nvr been
if you jus give in
so babe, its now or nvr


me and you, you and me ;
living a life in harmony
its magic, babe i’ve got a crush on you. YES I do... Say you do too


_____ii llurfe yoo_____

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